带你走进男士爱情片厂牌《MEN AT PLAY》的台前幕后

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好基友跟我说,这种讲究同志群体的稿子,不秀秀美好的躯干是麻烦引起关注的。

出于时不时,有同学私信问我(老姚,下同)怎么学前端的问题。那里统一复苏一下,如下次再遇上问我此题材同学,就径直把本文链接地址发给你了。

好啊,我只想秀得精细一点,脱离烂俗,并且也在直男直女的接受范围内

首先说句题外话。关于有人管我叫大神的工作。个人感觉这跟你买东西时,人家管你叫帅哥扳平,你答应与否都不妨。

Men At Play 是一家非洲的先生爱情片厂牌,从前总部在London,现在是西班牙。

大旨先导,“前端怎么学”应该玉石俱焚,别人的点子不一定适合自己。就说说自家的求学情势呢:我把大部分时光放在学习js上了。因为那么些js的读书曲线,先平后陡。项目进行和锻练啥的,我不说了,首要说下办事之外的岁月使用问题。我是怎么学的啊,看书,分析源码。个人这几天统计了一下,前端书籍近期看了50多本吧,大部分都是js的。市面上的书基本,差不多都看过。

本条厂牌在世上的同志圈有分外高的有名度,甚至在女性中也有忠实观众。

 

影视宣传图的作风

首先个问题是,看书有甚好处?

Men At Play闻名的原委是他很好地聚焦在一个一定需求的市场。

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影片的支柱都是身着精致高贵西装的特别Hot 而且异常MAN的男模。

利益应该是不言而明的,书看多了,基础会逐渐夯实起来。看多了,自己的判断力,自然就上去了。看外人的篇章,就能便捷判断出,对方每块儿讲得对不对,哪块儿又是友好不明了的,模棱两可的。当然也为看源码,分析源码提供了根基。

这多少个男模外形高挑,阳光,成熟,硬朗,潇洒,就和电视机剧里在办公室走来走去的时髦商务人员一样。

10本书读2遍的便宜,应该高于一本书读20遍。10本书的交集,这就是基础知识的基本,而并集这就是怀有的学问。好书当然要多读,反复读。然则只读一本是不行的。因为每本书的主心骨都不一致。从不同的侧面,去了然一个知识点,是很有含义的。

从而特地敬佩印度人,他跟你讲英文,你一个词语没听懂,他会蹦出n个同一意思的单词,你听懂一个,就ok了。看书也是这样的,某一块讲得不透彻,不用操心,其他书籍可以襄助你来询问。

影片场景不仅仅发生在办公,还有卧室,浴室,厨房,游泳池,club,警察局甚至绑架和审讯现场等等。

其次个问题是,书籍推荐。

这些拥有自然气质并且身姿矫健的男子在一定情景中的摩擦,恰到好处的满足了同志和一部分女性心中,对高颜值商务型男,华贵纯净的衬衣下
若隐若现胴体的奇妙遐想

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个体觉得不错的,没事可以翻翻的。书籍如下:

如果您欣赏阳光成熟并且潇洒优雅,打着领带穿着精细华贵的羽绒服,具有商务奢华气质的男儿,那么那么些厂牌不会让你失望。

>《javascript面向对象编程指南》,风格轻松易懂,相比相符初我们,原型这块儿讲得淋漓尽致,12种持续情势吗。

这个男模平时在20-30多岁,在某些地点抱有一定的相似性。

>《js权威指南》、《js高级程序设计》,这两本书经典是经典,不过太厚,适合把其中任意一章都当成一本书来读。洋洋洒洒,很难一口气看完。相比较符合当作参考书。

在这多少个厂牌的官网上,你可以查阅那么些列表,给他们打分,成为她们的粉丝,也得以精通他们的活着背景。

>《你不精晓的javascript》狙击js主旨细节,闭包、原型、this讲得都还驾驭。近年来《中册》也出了,还在看。

当下这多少个厂牌有149个表演过的男模。

>《js设计模式与付出实践》js设计模式也是要学的,此书把js的设计情势讲得这个清晰,一点不晦涩,看起来没多少难度。

她俩并非都是同志,也有局部是直男或者双性恋

>《正则携带》,分析源码时,倘若正则说明式不懂,没法举行下去的。此书相对来说讲得相比较明晰。

有一部分日益剥离,有一对新的血液参加

>《基于MVC的JavaScript
Web富应用开发》
,看完后,基本能写出团结的mvc框架了。是本好书。

眼光好的敌人应该发现了地点的有些图片有许多信息,图片下方有片名之类的,感兴趣可以自动百度

>《javascript函数式编程》,js是一门函数式语言,此书是函数式编程一个入门,函数是一等国民这是异常重要的。

在Cybersocket拿到前年超级亚洲Best European Site,Best Niche Site和Best
Sex Scene3项奖

>《js忍者秘籍》,jq作者写的,没有传说中的那么难读,话说就是你看完并精通有所知识点,也不会达成世界权威级此外。因为你还不曾形成随心所欲。

(Cybersocket是U.S.知名的成人杂志,评选最佳爱情片厂牌和艺人)

>《javascript框架设计》,如若初看此书,会认为此书有罗列代码之嫌。在我看来,此书讲究的是框架的全局观。以上图书是本人觉得是到位高手之路上必须看的,也亟需反复看。

当年刚刚是其一厂牌的15周年华诞

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在15年前的2002年的伦敦(London),一对已婚的同志为在下车平面公司之外赚点零花钱,用一个口袋数码录像机为西装爱好者拍摄视频,这便是Men
At Play这一个厂牌的前身。

css相关的书本,说实话我看得相比较少,总共有六七本吧。有两本必须引进一下:

在她们先导做这一个厂牌时,没有此外其他网站平台像他们那么狂热于穿胸罩的先生,除了部分Yahoo群组。

>《css权威指南》,css基础知识点这是讲得老大领悟的。什么层叠优先级、line-height啥的。不是无论一本书都敢叫“权威指南”的。

说到底因为流量与会员的穿梭的很快增长,为了网站的平时运作,他们只好放任平面公司的职务而全职制作影片。

>《css揭秘》,此书我也是不断的看,此书才不屑于全面讲css3各属性呢。css规范文档能讲的,它只会讲你最不在意的。此书解决的47题目,解决思路和缓解方案同等重要,很有启发性。以上各书你都能够不买,至少买本此书呢。

一个会执导、拍摄,制作出世界级的影片,另一个有精明的商业头脑与机智的认识,让这个工作室在这多少个新鲜的游玩行业中脱颖而出。

其多少个问题,怎么看。

各路演员送上祝福,也包括最近正当红的Theo 福特(Ford)

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他拍了快100部男士爱情电影,而且是被寻找最多的前30位成人视频演员之一

可能很多校友,都想看书,不过很羞耻下去。文字部分相对来说仍可以看看,一境遇代码,头皮就发麻了。此题材一最先时我也赶上的。

眼前在Men At Play也是常并发的支柱之一

说一个学学理论。比如说学立陶宛语,有个热水理论。词汇量必须达标6000才行,假设没达标,英文水准不会上来的,这跟烧开水一样,没事烧烧,放着凉凉,一向没烧到100度,那么此水是世代不能喝的。一旦煮沸过,就可以天天喝了。

下边接纳淡蓝网上部分Pettie专访Theo
Ford的有些内容,以便我们明白,了解和八卦男士爱情电影明星的行事和生活

20本书你看不下去,表达什么啊?其它一本书,你都没看完过。深谙的,永远只是前三章。别笑,我原先也是那般的。

(P=Pettie,T=Theo)

那就是说现在的问题是,怎么把一本书看完呢?很简单,敲。《基于MVC的JavaScript
Web富应用开发》这本书我看时,就是这样,终于有一天,我下定狠心要把此书从头到尾敲一回。文字加代码都敲,然后就一章一章得看完了。代码敲三回后,你会发觉,没以前看起来的那么难。

关于工作:演员……专业……敬业……安全……

假使你属于一看书就犯困这种同学。强烈指出你把《javascript面向对象编程指南》此书从头到尾敲三回。百折不回看完一本书后,信心就上去了。先确保看完一本再说,看完3本后,基本应该能不负众望几天就能看一本了。万事先河难,加油吧。

P: Do you feel a little self-conscious when you or you and your husband
walking on the street? Do you mind fans recognize you, take pictures,
and give them your autograph?

第三个问题,看书的层次问题。

平日当您要么和爱人一同走在街道上,会有点害羞吗?如若有粉丝看来,要合照要签名会介意吗?

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T: It’s funny actually as people are too shy to come up to me on the
street. They would turn around and whisper “omg, that’s him”. My husband
notices it more than me. Most of the times, it happens in the gym or
hotel just when I least expect it. For example, when I go to shoot in
Madrid, one of the waiters there is a big fan, and the first time he saw
me he was “oh my god, are you Theo Ford”. It was eight in morning. I was
not showered, or picture-ready at all.

书看完后,要自己总结,要与其他书籍相比较看。有同学同时相比较着看《权威指南》和《高设》来的。随便拿出个知识点,你都能闭着眼睛说得没错,表达水平够了。

有趣的是,大多数场所下,我们都太害羞,看到自家都不敢和自己搭话。他们会转过身说“天啊,是他”。我老公会比自己更易于注意到。惊叹的是,那样的事,在酒吧和健身房会相比较常发生。有一次我去法兰克福壁画,旅舍的一位服务员第一眼就认出自己,但这时候是下午8点,我没洗澡也没收拾,更是没准备好拍照。

下一块就是源码的上学了。看框架源码往日,想说一件事情:dom的api不懂,没问题,你可以百度。

Sometimes, I do have people telling me afterwards that they saw me on
the street, and ask if next time they can come up to me. I was at Heaven
last night, and in the queue to get in there was a boy from China, he
turned around, and looked at me, and asked if I was Theo Ford. I said
Yes, and he said he was a big fan. I was with my husband and he wanted
to take a picture, it was sweet. I just do porn. It’s not like I’m a
Hollywood actor. I do have fans, but I am not bothered by people on the
street recognizing me. It’s always pleasant.

可是正则一定要先研讨研商,不然大多数人去品尝分析源码时,境遇的败诉都在于此。

有时,我们会在后头对我说,下次再相见行仍旧不行拍摄什么的。我今儿早上在Heaven排队时,有个中国男孩认出自己。当时自己和丈夫在联合。他想合影,我自然乐意地承诺了。我觉得自己只是拍摄成人录像,是有些粉丝,但也从没到好莱坞明星这种水平。通常被认出,要合影等等,都是很心潮澎湃、很善意的,不会介意。

怎么去阅读源码呢?敲,照着敲。

Usually, people are really shy, because when you do porn, you are being
perceived as this sexual beacon of empowerment, which might intimidate
some. So they will love you on Twitter, but when seeing you on street,
they will be like “omg omg omg”.

有什么代码值得去敲呢?卓越框架或者库的源码都值得您去敲。可是拿jq来敲,来入门,这要命的。原因:太他么长了。八九千行呢!!

事实上过多时候我们蛮害羞的,特别是当你做情色电影的时候,你很容易令人有害羞的痛感。所以我们会社交媒体上不羞怯地粉你,但在马路上来看你,就不会这样,只会在心里嘀咕“
OMG OMG OMG”。

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I think it’s great that the internet helps people to open themselves and
live the life they would like to. You have to be careful to get stuck
behind your computer or your phone. But this does help to build a
certain image and to market yourself, especially when your image is a
product to sell.

民用觉得underscore.js库是不错的率先个选项。原因都是工具方法,敲完将来自己的品位相应略有小成吗。其实有部分api的贯彻,你要把它正是getElementById一样,深深的印在脑海里。比如extend方法,必须张口就来。敲完underscore库后,可以考虑去探访《javascript函数式编程》这本书了。

对峙媒体真的可以援救我们在网上展现自己,过着友好可以的生存。但您要专注,不可以让网上的活着,取代真正的生活。

jq的源码不好敲。那么zepto的源码相比少1800多行,敲一天应该敲完了。敲四遍后,把装有不懂的地点,都百度通晓,然后就可以写自己的类jq的库了。然后就足以看成一项技艺写进自己的简历里。比如“创设过自己的jquery库”。当然敲的历程,还是可以协理协调对jq的api认识。

And my life on Twitter is pretty open. Most are personal things. I never
post sexually explicit content. It’s just me, my family will also find
it cute to look at it as I talk about my husband, my life, and what I
do.

然后是backbone.js,因为此框架是以类jq和underscore为根基的mvc框架。代码也没多少行。敲吧。spine.js与backbone类似。能够在敲其事先,先看看那本《基于MVC的JavaScript
Web富应用开发》。希望您的简历可以加上这么一笔,“创设过自己的mvc框架”。

本人在推特上的情节是可怜通晓的,大多是本人的私人生活,不会有太多关于性爱等等的内容。所以尽管本人的老小,也得以看,也会觉得,这就是自家,和自身的生活。

其余的,我也敲过一些。包括jq.validate.js,包括部分插件。假使您愿意的话,bootstrap你可以去敲敲啊。源码挺多的,可以按插件逐个来敲。分析清楚了,轮播、分页、下拉框等等的插件这还不是分分钟随手就写一个了。最起码看看人家api接口是怎么设计的也是极好的。话说个人在阅读其css代码中,也学到了诸多事物。说到插件,有四个必须提提,一个是表格插件,一个是树。都敲完,简历里可以这样写上,“创设过自己的UI框架”。

Of course, there are links to my movies to promote, that’s the sexual
part. But this is the only sexual part of my Twitter, it’s my work. My
sexual life, as a person, is private. That’s actually the only thing
that can still be private in my life. So I would like to keep it that
way. Also because I am married, I want to protect it. I also want people
do realize that my life as a married man, is totally different and
separate from my life as an actor.

当然了,你也得以敲你喜爱的框架代码,首要的是知道其落实原理,最好了解其为什么那么设计,假使对设计形式相比熟练的话,会不时发现原本是这么回事。

理所当然,我有时候会享用自己的电影链接,这应该是自我的推特上仅局部与性相关的内容。我个人的性生存,完全是我的心曲,这也是自己生活中仅存的可以是自家个人隐私的有些,所以我梦想体贴它。作为已婚的老公,我也特意愿意我们知道,我的生活和本身的做事,是截然分开的。

照着敲只是分析源码的入门,用途也是为了求学,最终能用在投机的品类中,这是才是正道。虽然没啥用,也是消磨时光的好措施,比看电视机剧强多了。我闲着粗俗时,就背着敲underscore源码。最终说句,假设你简历上能按期写上那几句话后,必须是大神。加油啊。

P: So yourself as an actor, and we have got a few other interesting
terms here, such as porn star and performer, what do you think of these
three, and which one of them do you identify more with?

后记

你谈到温馨是演员,这相对于GV男星、表演者,你觉得区别在啥地方?

写本文的先前时期目的,正如著作起头说的这样,方便自己过来我们的咨询。本站的其他一篇分享学习经验的篇章,基本都会引起共鸣,这确实是一个值得啄磨的话题。这里再说说多少个业务。

T: I don’t perform on stage or night clubs, so I am not a performer. In
the scenes, you know it is a movie, there are people filming, we are
acting. Some of the things I do are not me, even if we have a dialogue
or a plot. For example, for Men.com, I got to play quite a few different
characters in my scenes, which is actually exciting.

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自家不在舞台、酒吧和夜店表演,所以我不是艺人。在照相的时候,我领悟会有摄影机,会有对话,会有剧情。我在影视里培育的,不是当真的自己。帮Men.com拍摄的时候,我有机会演不同的角色,依旧蛮令人激动的。

>有人问我前端工作经验事情。

A lot of people say that I am not an actor, that I am just selling my
dick online. Yes of course, I am not quoting Shakespeare in my work, but
it is still acting, since I do not do things I would in my own life.

没几年。三年多。

无数人说自己不是艺人,认为自身只是在卖肉。确实,我不需要在大团结的办事里上演Shakespeare戏剧桥段,但自我仍然在演出,会做一些自己自己的活着中不会做的工作。

>初学者或新手(beginner)如何是好?

There are porn actors, and porn stars. Nowadays, you see some people who
have made one scene call themselves porn stars. I have made nearly 100
movies, and I am one of the top 30 (27th) most searched actors. Maybe at
one point, when you have enough experience, you can legitimately call
yourself a porn star. Porn star is still a little bit overrated term for
myself.

看书和分析源码是非同小可的增强措施,但不吻合新手。新手需要的是能便捷的入门和入行,能很快的左侧工作。一种高效的求学模式就是看视频。正如部分同学说得这样,知道有怎样东西,怎么用就足以了。

成人片明星和表演者如故有分此外。现在成千上万人只拍过一部,就自称明星了。我拍了快100部,而且是被寻找最多的前30位成人录像演员之一,但自身觉着明星对自家来说是过誉的称呼。也许等自身有了十足的阅历和作品,有一天就足以如此称呼了吧。

看视频是有好处的,首先它是一种消极学习形式。我最起始的入门也是看视频来的,只需要看就行了。一回没懂,再放五遍,我基本上是1.5倍数去看的。

P: So for people like Paddy Brian, do you think they can be called as
porn stars?

而读书是一种积极格局,需要团结一页一页翻。需要自己积极的去领会。而不少东西,也许只是录像老师一句话,就能优良的紧要性,需要大家团结一心去解读。还有另一件工作是,比如发现自己某个知识点不太清楚,可以独立去百度。比如this,小说很多的。这种上学模式也是全速控制知识点的好措施。

那么诸如Paddy Brian等人,你以为她们是男星吧?

图书需要技术评审,那么看小说一定要探望评论。可是录像就不佳说了,视频一般都不会讲得太浓密,偶尔也有讲错的。当年本身也曾被一些录像误导过,提出找不错的视频看看。各大网站培训机构的免费视频挺多的。

Paddy Brian

 

T: Yes of course. You see the way they work is purely professional.
Paddy is one of these professionals, and he is a great guy. There are a
lot of them, and you can definitely tell the ones who are stars and
professionals, and the ones who do it because they just don’t know what
else to do. there’s a very big difference.

>看书和分析源码的时机。

自然是,而且更多的是因为他俩的敬业和业内。Paddy是很棒的老公,在这一行,有许多像她同样专业的,而且她们比那个因为不了解自己能做哪些而拍成人录像的非凡得多了。

但早已工作一年半载时,正是提升的好时候,此时可以去看书了。周全系统的梳理知识点,扫清自己的盲区。假设只是靠项目经验是不够的,通过项目来上学,这必将是必须的,工作本身就是一个就学的历程。

Paddy made a huge name for himself, and his name will appear in 90% of
the times when talking about porn, especially in the UK. And in the Top
30, I am ranked a little bit below him. I always feel so honored. It’s
nice and surprising to find out the way you see yourself is never as
good as the way others see you.

而是工作三年不看书的话,学又能学到多少吧?更何况每个项目都很相近,一向处在舒适区,这真就是5年经历重复第一年的了。所以自己不认同那句话:面试时强调自己的上学能力是办事能力不强的突显。3年经历的品位,完全有可能超越5年的。

Paddy异常知名,特别是在英帝国,只要谈到成人Gay片,90%都会波及他。我在前30人的排名里,仅落后他几名,对此我从来深感十分美观。其实自己看自己,和外人看自己很不同等。别人看您,平常可以发现你协调看不到的闪光点和长处。

 

When you are in porn, you are exposed both physically and emotionally.
Compared to 20 years ago, it’s much easier to talk to porn actors these
days by social media. Now the game has changed completely, there is a
lot more guys. Social media does allow to find more talent, and great
talents, but also allows people who are not or should not be in porn.

>没有时间去读书?

在我这行,我们都是人体和情绪暴露在外的。相对于20年前,现在得以因此社交媒体,相当容易地和成长视频演员交流。社交媒体也让许多艺人更便于被察觉、被发掘,所以现在有更进一步多个人在演,但还要,也让那多少个不应有从事成人电影的人有了出席的火候。

假定你还没毕业,就曾经随时在本站混了,其实你一马超越了一大步。都是混过大学的,天天充斥着lol和电视剧的陪伴,我只想说进入社会是要还的。最吓人的是如何啊?该还、还不还(那几个字别念错了)。时间是部分,就看您愿意付出不。下班后学习,周末求学,节假期人家玩的时候,在家敲代码,这样才能领先外人。

P: Have you ever come across a situation where you have to work with
someone who you are not attracted to? How do you still maintain the
chemistry on the camera?

 

你有没有为了工作和团结不希罕的同行合作?当时怎么在镜头前保持热度和心情?

>兴趣问题?

T: Well again, because it is acting. I make sure that I can see myself
doing that scene with the person. I have said No in the past. But once
you work with a big studio, they usually cast great guys, so it is
extremely rare to come across these kind of situations.

兴趣和善于是一个良性迭代循环。你擅长某件事情,就会越喜欢它,越喜欢,就越愿意花时间,进而越擅长。此道理都懂,只是缺少一个trigger。

为此自己一先导就说,这是表演。而且只要你和相比较大的店家合作,他们通常会选很好的男生和您一起拍。你说的这种气象,是很少的。

假若您欣赏玩游戏的话,其实您也许很是适合做前端。玩游戏就是一个禀报机制,前端工作的上报,相对其他干活的话也是老大及时的。代码一改,网页一刷,就见到效能了。擅长、优越感、成就感平日都是连在一起的。每看完一本书,我皆以为很有成就感。每敲完一个库,也有成就感。

Maybe once in a while, they will let you to work with a guy that you
don’t really like, but usually they are pretty great. It happens more
with small studios. Once I was told one hour before filming, that the
guy I was supposed to shoot with could not make it and it would be with
another guy. I saw the picture, and I was not happy. I did not say
anything but to be honest, if they had showed me before, I would have
said No. Afterwards, I was angry at them because they had put me in a
situation where I had to do something that I was not OK with.

 

这种情状或许会在一部分小店铺发生。比如有三遍,我在拍摄前一刻钟被告知,本来要和我拍的人来不断,要换人。他们给我看了替换者的肖像,我没说怎么,但内心是不情愿的。我没在片场说怎样,事后不行光火,因为他俩让自身做了本人平时不会做的政工。坦白说,借使一早就观看照片,我是不会答应的。

上述纯属一家之言,每个人的求学习惯、形式、态度都不平等。先端正态度、找到自己的读书模式,进而养成坚韧不拔下去的习惯。最后说一句,你自我共勉:只要您走在正确的征途上,不管、走得多慢,都是前进!

P: Was that one of the comments you made online which was related to one
of the very unprofessional experiences?

本文完。

这就是您后面在网上提到的不心旷神怡、很不标准的壁画经验?

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T: Yes. However, these days, when you work with big studios, such as
Men.com. It is just amazing and they will do everything for you. They
make sure you are fed, stay in a good hotel, and have your flights and
cab. Some other studios don’t even give you a drink on set.

腼腆,不小心打开了放置录像头!

不错。但现在和大公司合作是异常欢乐的工作。他们会确保您吃得好、住得好,帮你订好机票和车。有些集团甚至在照相的时候连喝的都不提供。

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P: Do you guys also need to be tested really often to keep working in
this industry, given the fact that you have to have sex with quite a few
guys?

 

平时和不同的人水墨画,你们需要平常做检测吗?

T: I have shot some bareback scenes, but there are just a handful of
them. Even if you only shoot safe sex, there is always a risk. So to
make sure that I am not in a position where I can get something or
transmit anything, I get tested every month.

本人过去拍过无套的,就几部。但固然你利用了珍贵措施,如故会有高风险。所以为了安全,我每个月都会检测一遍。

It’s for my own health, and peace of mind. It’s also important to
respect your co-workers, and my husband of course. If I catch something
on set, I can get treated, it’s fine. But it is more a matter of knowing
yourself and making sure that you are being safe. Also it is about
respect, for the person you are going to have close physical intimacy
with.

自我这么做,是对协调,也是对旁人尊重,更不要说您将和客人暴发亲密的负距离接触。当然,也是为着自身的爱人。即使我被污染到何以,可以去治疗。

P: So how long does it normally take for you to get ready for a scene. I
heard sometimes, a scene that lasts 20 minutes, needs to take hours to
film?

那么普通拍摄一部大约20分钟的视频,你要未雨绸缪多长时间,拍摄多久呢?

T: Usually a scene would be around 20 to 30 minutes, and normally would
take between one hour to 15 hours to shoot. A couple of times, I have
scenes shoot for 11 or 12 hours in one day. It was horrible.

万般来说,片长在20到30分钟左右,会花费1时辰到15个刻钟的拍照时间。有两回我一天拍了十多少个钟头,槽糕透了。

P: Wow, in one day, how to you keep that up all the time?

天啊?一天内,你是什么样保持这种热度和硬度的?

T: It was very difficult. At the end, I was like I am done. I just
wanted to go back to my hotel. It wasn’t fun at all. Thankfully the
director got fired this year, so I am glad.

异常拮据,毫无乐趣,拍完了自己只想回旅馆。幸好这些导演二〇一九年被炒了,我很心旷神怡。

P: Do you feel a little bit strange to have sex in front of cameras, as
you need to be aware of the angles and everything. Can you still enjoy
bits, or do you have to treat it just as work, and make sure all good
shots are captured?

在画面前做爱,会不会以为有些蹊跷。因为您要时时留意不同的角度等等,在总体过程中,你还可以享用到片刻啊?

T: It is a bit of both. You have to make sure you are or you show that
you are enjoying yourself. At the same time, you need to make sure you
open your body up to the camera. It’s practice. The more you shoot, the
more you know about the positioning and look natural as well. So it is
very important to know how to work with cameras.

都有点吧。你一定要确保自己在画面前看起来很享受,同时要保管伸展身体。拍得越多,自然越娴熟,对角度、姿势等意况的操纵也会更形成。

P: Do you have to stop in the middle sometimes, just for the
photographer to get a good picture?

奇迹你需要中间暂停,让摄影师拍一些好照片吧?

T: Usually the pictures are done first. So you do all the positons with
the picture, and you know what positons you can do and you do them. It’s
actually good as you will know in the actual filming, what positons come
after so the transitions can be more natural. And it is actually quite
funny to see afterwards how you do different transitions from this to
that. Some studios do the pictures during the filming, but it is not the
best way.

万般照片是先拍的。而且这么,你会分晓要用到哪边姿势,不同姿势的转换会显得很当然。拍完后看自己怎么换不同的体位,其实还蛮有意思的。有一对商店会在半路拍照片,我认为这不是最好的做法。

P: And it is quite cool that you can practice all different positions
with your husband 😛

还要,你还足以和先生尝试这一个不同的姿势,哈哈!

T: It’s funny because I never try these positions with my husband as it
is always very natural. That’s why I always say I don’t have sex with my
husband, I make love to him. It’s not the same dynamic. It’s the
emotions. Sometimes, it can last an hour, sometimes it lasts 10 minutes.
And that’s the great thing as it is the passion and the intimacy.

有趣的是,我尚未会和先生尝试这一个姿势。我和他直接是不行自然的。我和女婿的不是性爱,是做爱,是一心不均等的。有时候可能10秒钟,有时候1刻钟,这个都不重要。更多、更要紧的,是我们互相的心思、亲密和心绪。

P: Do you feel a little bit awkward or strange if your husband sees your
work?

假设您爱人看到您拍的影视,你会认为意外或者窘迫呢?

T: Well, obviously, he has seen me and I have nothing to be ashamed of.
I know that he has seen all the trailers for my movies. I wouldn’t watch
them with him. It is work, I always keep it that way as much as
possible. Sometimes, he is like, oh you look like you are really
enjoying yourself. I am like it is just work. Maybe it looks great and
we had fun and laughed a lot. But it is still just work, that’s it.

不曾什么好害羞或者尴尬的。我知道他看过自己具备电影的预告片。我当然不会和他伙同看,因为这对自我的话只是办事而已。有时她可能会说,看起来您在那边面真的很享受。我会说,可能看起来是这样,但不管怎么着,只是工作而已。

And in the evening, I go home to my husband.

并且中午,我再次来到家里,回到自己男人身边。

P: It is actually such an amazing thing that you have someone to go back
to every evening.

有个能让您每一天回家的人,也是相当浪漫和幸福的作业。

T: It is and it does bring some balance. I guess I was missing that
before meeting him. I did not have any balance; it was all work.

毋庸置疑。而且这会给您的劳作和生活带来平衡感。我认为在遇见他前头,我就是却少了这种平衡,这时候的自己不住地工作。

P: A lot of my friends are using all kinds of dating apps. They meet
people like having fast food, and they complain that it is so hard to
find a decent boyfriend. Do you think people should really get to know
each other before jumping into beds?

自我的众多仇人都在用不同的约会软件,他们像吃快餐这样见不同的人,但也不停地抱怨找一个好的男朋友为啥那么难。你以为滚床单这件事情,真的是要三思而后行啊?

T: Dating apps is good and bad. It has helped a lot of people to come
out and meet other guys without actually having to go to a gay bar. It
is easier, a lot of people do use it as a tool to do what you have said.

约会软件当然是两面的。它们扶植广大人出柜,不需要去同志场馆就能认得新的对象,让约炮约会变得越来越容易。

It’s important to know what exactly you want. It’s very easy to
complain. If you just want to hook-ups, great. If you want to find a
boyfriend, maybe try to look deeper. Everyone, even if a person says he
only wants sex, still wants a boyfriend and be in love.

第一的是明亮自己要如何。假如你假诺约炮,可以啊。如若您想要男朋友,这你就需要深刻点。每个人,固然是这多少个声称只要性爱的人,都会想要男朋友,想要恋爱。

If you are open to meeting someone and actually open for relationships
to other people. You will always have the possibility of finding a
boyfriend. Sometimes it takes a bit more work, because you are shy or
socially awkward, or their appearances don’t fit into the stereotypes of
a perfect gay guy. But whatever you look like, there is always someone
who will find you attractive. And there is always people who will find
you ugly and unattractive, even with me.

假诺你愿意认识不同的人,并且想和外人成为男朋友,肯定会有期待的。有时候可能会对比难,或者要做相比较多的不竭。无论你表面怎么着,总会有人认为你吸引人。就终于我,也会有人以为自家不太难堪。

A lot of the guys don’t know what they want. They say they want
boyfriends, but at the same time, they want to have sex with lots of
other guys. So I think it is a matter of really looking inside you and
your own feelings, and then you can actually manage to do what you are
meant to do.

有的是男生其实都不知底自己实在要怎么。嘴上说要男朋友,心里却想和众多个人约炮。所以我觉着,你真的需要扪心自问,了然自己想要什么才得以。

You know there are also some guys, they look so cute, and you will be
like, omg, I wanna talk to him. And it’s funny as it was how I met my
first boyfriend.

突发性你相会到有的男生,你会认为,天啊,怎么这么雅观,我想和他谈话。我就是如此碰着首个男朋友的,那样很有趣。

I just turned 18 in Dublin, and I was seeing a couple of friends. I
walked up to him and said hi, and that was it. I literally interrupted
him as he was with a friend. I was 18 and he was 34, so he was a not a
boy anymore.

那时候我在布宜诺斯艾利斯(Ellis),刚刚18岁,和多少个对象在酒店。我见状他,走上前问好,亲了他,然后一切就发出了,当时她还和多少个朋友在一起。这是她34岁的时候,所以现在她不再是男孩了。

P: Have you watched the TV series Queer as Folk? It was kind of like how
Justin and Bryan were first met.

您看过美剧《同志亦凡人》吗?这和Justin(Justin)、布赖恩第一次汇合的现象很像。

《同志亦凡人》剧照

T: Bryan was a jerk in the series, while the guy I met was the kindest
person I could ever meet and he is still a friend. It’s always the same
because you have to take a chance in life. Even for porn, it was a huge
chance and risk I decided to do it. And I feel like it is a good thing,
which I also ended up meeting my husband.

布赖恩在电视机剧里是个混蛋,但自己的第一个男友是自己见过最和谐的人,现在自己和她要么好对象。有时候你就是亟需冒险,需要逼自己刹那间。即使转业情色电影,对我而言也是很大的支配,更是一场冒险。我认为很好,我也因为做事认识了当今的丈夫。

P: Wow, how come you meet your husband through porn?

嗬,你是怎么通过工作认识老公的?

T: Because of porn, I was filming in Los Angeles. I met him as we have
friends in common. He is an underwear model as well as a celebrity
hairstylist. He doesn’t do porn though lots of studios have invited him
for that.

自己及时在华沙拍照,大家是通过共同好友认识的。他是肢体模特和明星发型师,没有从业过成人影片,固然有广大店家都邀请过她。

P: Ah, so you guys are in totally different industries.

从而你和女婿完全在五个例外的行当里。

T: I wanna make sure that he has his own life and career as well. I
don’t want to feel like we have to compare ourselves. I think we have to
compliment and add to each other, rather than share everything. We need
to bring different things into the relationship. Your work, and your
career is a big thing. I love the fact that he does things I cannot do.
It’s pretty amazing you can have that.

本身期待大家有不同的劳作,他也有自己的生存。我不想有这种必须相互比的感到。我希望我们的涉及是补充而不是分享一切。大家都急需为我们的关系带来不同的东西,而工作是相当关键的。我异常欢欣鼓舞我的女婿做着我做不了的事情。

P: How long were you single before meeting your husband?

欣逢你老公在此之前,你独自多长时间了?

T: I was never much single. I always go from one relationship to
another. I hate being single. Every time I break up with someone, I
always feel like I want to be single. And next week, I will find a guy
who I really really like and look great, and here we go again.

本人从来没怎么单身过。我差不多都是从一段关系登时进入下一段关系。我不希罕独立,每一回分别我都感觉想要单身,但过了一周就会意识我爱不释手的男生,然后又起头了。

When I met Shawn, I was not expecting to meet anyone. I was not looking
for boyfriend. But when I met him, I kept him.

本人遇见肖恩的时候,其实并不在找男朋友。但当自家遇见他,我就掀起她了。

P: Looks like you guys have the perfect gay couple life: attractive,
good career, and a cute dog. Maybe some day to have a baby as well. And
I would love to adopt a cute mixed baby, such as Asian and European.

看起来你们现在过着具体而微的同志生活:有自己喜好的办事,还有宜人的狗狗。也许有一天你们会有谈得来的子女。假设是本身,会想要一个可爱的欧亚混血宝宝。

T: And I will have an Asian baby.

嘿嘿,这我就要一个非洲婴孩。

Theo Ford(右)和老公Shawn de Rodez

P: Do you feel like here in Europe, Asians are not as popular as they
are in some other places. The popular ones here, are either the super
girly ones, or the ones who are like very stocky and muscular. The ones
in between, sometimes, do not seem to be that popular.

你有没有认为,在非洲,很四个人爱不释手非凡类似女生的,或者相当健全的北美洲男生,处在中间的如同不那么受欢迎。

T: In Europe in general, Asian guys are not that popular. But London is
different as it is a very international and diverse city. You have lots
of inter-racial couples. That’s what I like about it. My husband and I,
we are biracial as well. It’s amazing to share different cultures and I
would love to have babies with him. There is actually a technology now
that you can put three people’s DNAs.

完全上,非洲男生在南美洲的确没有另外地方那么受欢迎。可是伦敦(London)是很是多元化的城池,有众多跨种族的朋友。我男人和自身就是不同种族的,能享受不同的学识和背景是老大棒的事情。我愿意得以和他有温馨的子女,其实现在早就有合成两人DNA的技能了。

I would love to have Shawn get pregnant, lol. As a gay guy, you have to
work for it (having babies) and decide. It seems more like a mission
rather than something that just happens naturally. We will definitely
have kids, and hopefully in 3 or 4 years. Depending on where we live and
what we do, preferably before I am 35. I want to be a young dad.

本身超想Shawn怀孕,哈哈。作为同志,要孩子更多是一种目的和抉择,不是自可是然就足以生出的。我们终将会要孩子,希望在前不久三四年内。具体取决于我们在哪儿以及在干什么,然而本人梦想35岁前可以有。我愿意做个青春的生父。

P: A lot of the Chinese guys have to live in the closet because of the
social culture and family pressure. It is hard to come out, and in order
to do that, I think we have to be financially well-off, and totally
being able to afford a stable life, and surrogate babies if we want to.

是呀,好多中国的老同志因为社会和家园的下压力不可以做自己,出柜异常难。我以为您无法不经济独立,有能力让投机过上舒适的生存,然后才方可代孕。

T: I have lots of Chines friends who are more or less out. It’s a shame
because sexuality is something so natural, and there is nothing more to
change it. Homosexuality has been around for millenniums, as well as
with the Greeks, the Romans, and the Egyptians. So it is not something
happened with the internet or new technologies. It is something that
exists in the animal kingdom as well. We have thousands of different
species that have homosexual relationships. It is natural and in nature,
though it is obviously cultural and religious too.

自己有这个半出柜的中原情人,因为那些而不可以做和好真正特别遗憾。同性恋是千百年来就存在的,是本来的,没有什么样可以更改。动物的社会风气里也有,所以不是因为互联网或新科技才有的。当然,也和学识宗教有关系。

When you do porn, and you are so out sexually. It is kind of amazing to
show that you can be empowered by your sexuality, regardless you are gay
or straight. But you can actually own your sexuality and be proud of it,
being able to decide what you want to do.

当你从事黄片,你就用很直白的章程公开性取向,还可以够告诉我们,无论是异性恋仍旧同性恋,都足以为团结的性取向感到自豪,并且可以控制自己想做什么。

It is amazing when some of my fans from China, even on Twitter. They
tweeted and telling me they are a big fan. And telling me they feel
happy to see that I can be happy and being gay; even being in porn and
happily married to another man.

本人的局部中国粉丝在推特上对自己说,他们见到本人当做Gay可以这么满面红光,拍摄成人影片的还要仍可以和老公甜蜜结合,这让他们也感到开心,我认为这是很有含义的。

I am happy by myself. It kind of makes me happy that I can show others
that I can live a healthy life even I am gay. We have to educate people
to tell them that it is actually great to be gay. It is actually even
maybe more fun and exciting. Society cannot tell you that you have to be
married if you are 30.

自家要好很快乐,让旁人看来自家看成Gay如此健康欣欣自得,我也会喜洋洋。我们需要经过教育,让我们领会同性恋也足以很喜欢,甚至更好玩。社会无法告诉我们30岁前务必结合。

When you are gay. You don’t have that. Imagine that you are a lesbian
woman. You don’t have a society that tells you that you have to have a
kid by 30. I love the fact that you are outside the society and the
rules. You can even create your own rules. I am the first generation of
homosexuals that can get married. And it is amazing to be a pioneer.

当你作为Gay,你就不要被这多少个约定俗成的事物束缚,甚至可以操纵和创办和谐的规则。我是首先代可以结婚的同性恋,很心潮澎湃能走在前面。

P: Did you guys get married here or in America?

你们是在美利坚联邦合众国成婚的呢?

T: We got married in Beverly Hills, LA, where my husband is from. I got
his name tattooed on my fingers two weeks ago for our 8-month wedding
anniversary. He got mine on his too.

大家在吉隆坡的贝弗利山结婚,我男人也源于这里。为了庆祝大家结婚8个月,两周前自己把她的名字纹在手指上,他也把自家的名字纹在他的指头上。

When we got married and repeated the vows, it is pretty crazy. Sometimes
when I see movies or TV shows that have the same scene. I feel a bit
emotional.

当大家结合和表露誓言的时候,我深感有点癫狂。有时候在影视如故电视机里观望类似现象,我都会被拨动。

Not every day is easy as we also have fights. We are different people.
Sometimes it is difficult to adapt and we got married only after 3 weeks
of knowing each other. We met on the 17th of March on St. Patrick’s day.
It is really cool because I am Irish and this is a national holiday. On
the 8th of April, we got married. That was pretty quick and a lot of
people thought it was a fake wedding. It’s funny because people still
talk like that. If you see us, all the time, we hold hands every where
we go.

当然,不是天天都那么顺利的,大家也会有争议。我们是例外的人,结婚前只相处了两个星期。大家在四月17日相识,八月8号结婚。真的很快,以至于许多少人到近年来都觉得我们是假结婚。假使您看我们,无论啥时候哪个地点我们都会牵起首。

P: That’s so sweet and romantic, even just to have someone to hold hands
together wherever you go.

持有一个任什么日期候、任何场地都牵手的人,非凡浪漫和甜美。

Sometimes, you were not expected to be romantic and it just happened.
And I think we all have that kind of romanticism in us. So you really
have to open and dig out.

突发性,我们会不上心地性感起来。我认为每个人都有肉麻细胞,你需要不停发掘和发现自己。

P: Indeed, and I have done some very romantic things for my exes in the
past. When you look back, you will actually be amazed at how and when
you come up with these kind of ideas.

是啊,我也为前任们做过无数浪漫的政工。现在记念起来,你会惊讶当初哪来那么多勇气和生机。

T: Sometimes it is like taking a risk to do something like that. When I
met my husband, it was my last night in LA. I needed to fly to New York
the next morning. And I asked him if he wanted to come with me. He was
like I don’t know and as it was literally the next day, the plan tickets
were so expensive. He couldn’t afford it. I told him not to worry, and
just take a day off to make sure he is free.

突发性我们还需要点冒险精神。我遇上Shawn的时候,是自己在莫斯科的末梢一天,第二天要飞伦敦。我问她要不要和自家一块儿去,他说不了然,而且机票分外贵。我告诉她别担心,请一天假,保证自己有空就足以。

I got his tickets. The next day he came with me to New York for 3 days.
Later he had to go back to LA to work. So our first date started in LA,
and went on to New York, and lasted for 4 days in two different cities.
It is also the stories that make the relationship special. I like that
and you cannot make that up.

自身为她买了机票,第二天她就和本身一块去伦敦,待了三天,之后她因为工作只好回伊斯坦布尔。所以我们的率先次约会,跨越了六个城市,持续了四天。正是这些故事,让我们的涉嫌变得专程和有意义,而这么些是无力回天杜撰的。

P: So who proposed? Is it yours or his idea?

那么是什么人求婚的啊?

T: It was a sunny Easter Sunday, and we spent the day with friends. At
dinner, he was like I don’t want to live another day without you. I want
to get married. And I was like are you sure. It’s funny because I said
yes. But it was more like are you sure? And he was like yeah. OK let’s
do it. I was a bit crazy as well. It was also a way to make a point that
we want to prove to each other that we really want to be together.

这是阳光灿烂的复活节周末,我们白天和对象们在一道。晚饭时,他说不能想像没有我的光景,想和自我结婚。我说Yes,但听上去更像“你确定吗”。他就是说的,好,这我们就结婚啊。这真的有些疯狂,但这也是表明我们真正想和对方在联名的点子。

P: Dating these days seem so much more complicated as we need to
consider so many things; and always, there are so many choices, such as
omg, he is cute, but he doesn’t have a great career. We tend to lose the
guts of just doing it, simply being together.

这年头约会变得复杂许多,因为选用太多,需要考虑的也很多,比如对方很雅观,不过工作一般。我们好像失去了肆无忌惮的胆子,以及简简单单在一起的初心。

P: Some people these days even use plastic surgeries to make themselves
fit into certain standards, such as high cheek bones, skinny faces. What
do you think about these?

今昔游人如织人会透过整容让投机适合某些特定的审美标准,比如高颧骨、瘦脸等等,你怎么看?

T: If it really helps you to make yourself feel better in your skin, do
it. If it is just a replacement for something you are not getting in
life, such as self-esteem and respect, that can be very dangerous.
That’s why there is actually higher percentage of suicides among people
who take plastic surgeries because they think going through certain body
changes will make them happier, but you have to be happy first.

假如这着实可以让您觉得更好更自信,这就去做吧。但假诺把这一个当成某种无法获取的事物的替代品,比如自信和对协调的尊重,这就很惊险了。整容人群的自杀率相对较高,是因为许五人觉得整容可以让她们更愉悦,但最着重的是,你先要能让祥和快活起来。

P: And you need to feel so careful and delicate when having sex with
these people (Just kidding, oops, don’t break my nose or lip).

并且你和这一个人滚床单的时候要多小心,比如别弄坏鼻子或嘴唇(玩笑哈)。

T: Sometimes, you just have to make sure you are the best you can be. It
never a matter being perfect or being exactly what people want you to be
in this industry. And this actually apply for everything in life. That’s
actually why my name Theo come from for porn. It means the descendant of
a human being into a god-like state. The idea is, every day, you become
better.

突发性,你只需要保证您成为最好的要好,不需要变成豪门想要你变成的那么。在做事上,生活里,都应有如此。Theo这么些名字的来自,就是神话里最接近神的状态的人。意思是,每一日你都会发展,能变成更好的和睦。

P: It’s the perfect relationship you can have. To help each other become
better versions. It kind of sucks that most of guys are seeking
temporary romances and chemistries.

那就是最健全的涉嫌,互助共进。可惜现在大部分男生都是找短时间的肉麻或者关联。

T: Getting married so quickly might seem crazy but it has actually made
us better and stronger. Because we are married, we have to stay together
and make an effort to really be together to make each other happy. So it
was actually really great to get married so quickly before we get tired
of each other. Even if at some point, it really turns out to be a huge
mistake, you can always get a divorce. In my head, if I don’t give this
the best chance possible, I never know what my life can be with him.

如此快结婚看上去确实很疯狂,但这也让我们更是亲切。因为我们不可能不花时间了解对方,花精力让对方掀拳裸袖,让我们的确在一道。所以在大家没有厌倦对方此前,这么快结婚是一件善事。即使有一天大家发现这是个谬误,也得以离婚。

We get engaged on Sunday and I told my mon. We picked the rings on
Monday. On the Wed we got married. So my Facebook status, changed from
being in a relationship, to engaged, and to married in like 4 days.
People were like what happened?

我们周六订婚并且告诉我大姑,周日我们去买戒指,礼拜五我们就结婚了,所以自己的非死不可状态在4天内从单身变成恋爱,变成订婚,变成已婚。很多少人都惊讶了,不晓得暴发了哪些。

P: People might just think it is for post April Fool’s Day, lol

我们兴许以为是愚人节的节后玩笑啊,哈哈。

T: It was actually just in April and just after that. I like the idea of
just making the biggest effort. If you don’t risk, you don’t get
anything.

真正是在愚人节从此。我欢喜“尽最大努力”这种看法。借使您不冒险,就什么样都得不到。

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